Just don't know what to do anymore

[Nvrgivup]

Well I know for sure about the OM, like I said she admits it freely now. I think affair busting is out of the question, since for her its not an affair (separated means free to date and whatever else she tells me) So I'm on to set them free, which is probably where I should have been for the last few years. But man have I struggled with that. Even after reading DB and reading posts here and knowing what I needed to do, I found it near impossible to just shut up and let go. Guess that is where I still am. struggling to let go