Cindy, Did you talk to him? I know what you mean about being afraid of hearing something. I think the memory of the bomb lives in our minds still. That's not to say it will happen that way though. I was sure my H was going to give me the boot yet again, but he didn't and things are getting better every day. 3 positives for the day: 1.We had a blast with kids last night shopping and visiting Santa. 2. H said ILY 3 times!!! First!! 3. I got a good shift at work-they're changing everything around and I was afraid I'd have a late shift. Whew!