I'm sorry we have this in common Dagny. I will be thinking of you tonight too and hoping that we both have the strength to command respect again and set boundaries.

I'm still super nervous. I think he is going out with new work friends tonight (which I'm ok with, we do need to establish a network of friends here) so hopefully he'll be home at a reasonable time to get this over. I'm so nervous that tomorrow I'll be spending my day planning for a new life without a husband... but he isn't much of a husband right now just a financial backer.

Me 32 H 32
Ds 3.5 and 1.5
M 5 years, T 14 years
EA/Bomb: 7/1/10
PA revealed: 9/14/10
Legally separated: 10/01/10