Thanks Vlcanized and LSG, BTW LSG I sent you an email reply. I spoke with my Mom who said your W has made a choice, let her go. My Mom also said that, your W has wanted to change you since you guys met, and she cant, bc you are you. Mom says W is a narcicist, which I think most people have some of that, but when they become a WAS, it heightens it quite a bit. They put their needs and wants above all, including the kids.
Mom says you both have made mistakes, at least you will own up to them. If the W does not then she will carry that baggage with her, as well as the baggage she still carries from her childhood. W is just like her Dad, a narcisist to no end. When we have problems she becomes a daddy's girl again, and that last a few months then he disappears like he has done throughout her life. He has come to the rescue recently loaning her money for L, new place and a cell phone but that tree aint gonna keep shedding money for her, he is as cheap as they come.
