Well, now your H knows what you want. Just stick to it. Don't let him get anymore than what you want. During my bad time, I used to have the odd angry outburst, and let H have it. It did feel good. Not the best as far as d'busting, but sometimes keeping things bottled up isn't good for one either. Might've been a better idea to find another outlet, but none of us here are perfect li'l d'busters, are we?

Hope your workmate gets better soon.

Take care of yourself, and hope things get resolved in a manner more favorable to you.

Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim