Repentent of my angry outburst at H, but glad I got it off my chest. I have blocked his email and won't take his phone calls, so the only resort he has left is L or snail mail.
He so strangly isn't about the divorce, just getting his way on this property. Still doesn't explain the strange quote "in Arkansas you can get a divorce annulled"
I know yesterday was a step backwards for me. My last email to him told him I thought it would be better if we didn't have contact at all, and I haven't contacted him since. Maybe at last he'll get the message.
Well, now your H knows what you want. Just stick to it. Don't let him get anymore than what you want. During my bad time, I used to have the odd angry outburst, and let H have it. It did feel good. Not the best as far as d'busting, but sometimes keeping things bottled up isn't good for one either. Might've been a better idea to find another outlet, but none of us here are perfect li'l d'busters, are we?
Hope your workmate gets better soon.
Take care of yourself, and hope things get resolved in a manner more favorable to you.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
Finally a day of peace! No phone calls, no emails. Had a couple of calls from people during the day, but my co-workers know to screen for me.
86 days to go til I'm assured of Health Insurance. I expect some sort of reaction out of him, probably through his lawyer, but each day brings me closer to the magic number.
Yes, IB I am going pitch dark. I thought I missed him when we were dark before. Now I'd just like the quiet and rest. Honestly don't know what started us off talking again. Oh yeah, him and this waiver thing. It's been like 3 weeks of unending badgering and torment, and it's my fault for letting it go on.
The blame thing was really coming out. " I at least had a home to go to" "I want to get on with my life like you have". All made to sound like this whole thing has been my idea from the first.
Don't know what the last two emails said, I sent them straight to the trash bin.
Co-worker got to go home from hospital today. No brain tumor, no aneurysm, nothing serious that they could find. Just a migraine related seizure. In this state, if you have a documented seizure, you can't drive x 1 year. She's just stressed out. I know the feeling.
Know how you feel...been there did that and got the t-shirt, pants and shoes!
Trust me as good as it may feel sometimes the reprocussions can be much worse...so lesson learned, ok?
So what do you mean by 86 days to be assured of health insurance? I may have missed something...
I start back to work next Monday driving a school bus...know how I know it is time? Because we are getting hit with a freaking heatwave!!! It always happens just in time for me to get back into the bus with NO A/C!!!
Oh well...at least I have a job, benefits (for now), and a place to call home.
Thanks guys. imLin, in the Army, you have Tricare Insurance for Health, Dental, etc. If you are married for 20 years when you get a divorce, they cannot take that away from you, ever. If less, you only have it for a year. 86 days until my 20th Anniversery.
No matter how this turns out, if I can hold it off for 86 days, I will at least not have to worry about insurance. Very important.
My friend tells me H has obviously moved on, and I need to do the same, yet I'm still stuck loving him. Even through all this. It makes me smile when I read that someone is back together or their husband/wife is showing signs of improvement. No matter what, Irish, there is always hope. Even for me and you.
My friend tells me H has obviously moved on, and I need to do the same, yet I'm still stuck loving him. Even through all this.
Punkin, my friends said the same thing, until I convinced them that there were many reasons for me to be still -- for now, for me. They now trust that when the time comes for me to move on, I will. You have an excellent reason to hold on for at least a few more months. After that, you can reevaluate. You'll know what to do, and when.
M 65 H 64 T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08 Two Ds
Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man
