new chapter with strange WAW

[BeingMe]

Seems to me, Future, like there is a lot of game-playing being suggested here. You have to hold true to yourself ... at least, that is what I find attractive in a man. Think about it ... will you have to constantly be keeping your W on her toes once she comes back home? When will she just love you for the man you are? I have noticed a number of people (mostly men) who have come back here after supposedly 'saving' their M. I wonder if they were playing the game and couldn't keep it up after they got their wives back.

Look, if someone (a person who has been married to you a number of years, has children with you) cannot love you for the person you are ... then I would say hasta la vista baby, ciao. Mean what you say, don't play the game. If bust this divorce, and she comes back, then discovers that you were playing her (even though she is doing it), she will leave again. I think you are the honorable type. Being honorable doesn't mean you have to tell her everything though, and you have to stick to your boundaries. If she wants to go and do the flirty thing, and still have OM on her FB, etc. then so be it. Time to step back.

I think you are doing an awesome job. Just my point of view.