The other man in the picture is not going away until she realizes this open marriage proposition was not what she wanted in the first place. Right now it is ideal for her. This guy, that guy, drinks, flirt, fun, fun, fun.
BUT THEN .... all of sudden Future is gone from the picture. She realizes, Future may be funning someone else. The flip flopper maybe flip flopping some girl around his bed.
WOAH .... all of sudden you will hear "I think we should be exclusive to eachother and spend everynight as a family." The busy schedule and need to find herself will disappear real quick.
That is EXACTLY what I did earlier this year, and yes, it absolutely worked. Unfortunately, her comes out destructively, as in suing me for custody of my kids! I know in her head, she was thinking "I won't have some other woman with my kids. If H wants to screw around with some whore, I'll show him, I'll take the kids and he can screw around all he wants!" Sometimes I think she's nuts. I went from standing across from her in courtroom, to her trying to seduce me and singing my praises, in a matter of weeks!
When she came after me, she did want us together virtually every night, she wanted to know where I was, she wanted me by her side. Then this crap with OM came up, and her attraction divebombed. I did feel like it was making me look weak, but I had been putting up with her cake eating ways for TWO YEARS!
