RMC,

Well I guess the idea for getting sex toys came from me. I had mentioned to him numerous times in the last 2 months that I wanted to go down to the couples store (not sure what you call those places...see what a pro I am ) to find a certain item I wanted. I guess I indicated to him that I would be interested in those things. I guess I'm just hurt and scared that he selected them alone. but my h when i first met him was into porn videos and mags...over time I phased him out of using them with me (don't like them) but he continued on the sly off and on for years. Not with toys though.

I guess that is where the where came from....me . He said he bought them at the Spencer's in the mall so it wasn't like he went to an XXX store alone which I guess makes it ok?.

Men...can't live with them and we can't string em up!

Cindy