i thought about contacting her. but i don't know where they all stand now.
she doesn't exactly have her life together however .. i respect her. why? because she is fending for herself and surviving the hardship she put herself in. she's very tough - she is struggling financially, gambling addict common law husband (he was the OM), and a 4 yr old son with this OM. and she has not crawled back to her parents yet.
she grew up having her way. also cried to get her way.
what hurt me .. is that my h is willing to put up with is mother's crying. yet, when i cried because i couldn't get pregnant, he said "i'm tired of putting up with your crying". why not just kick me in the stomach?
