I feel like she is still trying to control what I do with my life. She asks about everything, I tell her some and just not everything. She got pissed because old friends(girls) have been sending me stuff on FB about travelling to TX and wanting to meet up. If we were still together I would invite her, I told her that they send me stuff like that and I havent responded. This is where I feel she is still attached, so maybe I can do my best db'ing being apart. I just have to make sure all interaction is pleasant and that the GAL shows big time. any thoughts??
The only things you should respond to are about kids, house, money. Your private life doesn't concern her anymore and that is due to her choices.
Since you aren't together, tough darts on her getting bent over your old friends. Don't tell her you would have invited her; counterproductive. W needs to have the fear that a.) she's made a mistake b.) you are moving on c.) OW find you worthwhile.
Future interactions w/W:
be pleasant, upbeat only discuss children, house, financial end conversation first
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10
