How was I supposed to convey that her getting rid of OM is the requirement for getting me back in her life if I don't tell her?
you do this by playing the field yourself. date as many woman as you can afford. date her divorced best friend. find one that plays bass.
you don't tell her a word. you simply drop off the face of the earth. your woman is a smart one; she will smell it on you from the other end of the phone. you will reek of 'I dont need you anylonger.'
The other man in the picture is not going away until she realizes this open marriage proposition was not what she wanted in the first place. Right now it is ideal for her. This guy, that guy, drinks, flirt, fun, fun, fun.
BUT THEN .... all of sudden Future is gone from the picture. She realizes, Future may be funning someone else. The flip flopper maybe flip flopping some girl around his bed.
WOAH .... all of sudden you will hear "I think we should be exclusive to eachother and spend everynight as a family." The busy schedule and need to find herself will disappear real quick.
You are thinking to much. You are trying to hard. You are over analyzing all these "techniques."
This is a true story for Chuck, since the Chevy Nova story went over his head ...
I had this girl in one of my classes this spring, her name was 'Zoot.' No lie. She signed up for Botany because she had a Rose tattoed on her butt. It was an Biology elective for her but she did finished the semester with a "B" on multiple choice exams and a single paper. She made the best Vodka Gimlets for a young girl 'tending her way through school. An artist.
You could never imagine how hard my wife tried to make a better Gimlet straight up.
