These posts are all out of wack so I hope they make sense to you. If he's never used those kinds of things before and wants to use them with you, I would question him. Not accusatory, but you have the right to know what is going on and why the change? If your not comfortable with this I would tell him. You do not have to do anything you don't want to do. Definately, this came from somewhere. Question is..where? Rachael