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Do I just say "I am doing my best to move forward ..getting a lot of joy out of bub..", stuff like that? and not mention WH and my pain?


Perfect. Also agree to allow yourself to talk to close friends and family about your pain. Just be cautious that the more you "bash" your H the more they won't want you to R one day.

And I must say that no contact is definitely the way to go. Commit for a month to start. Vent here when you are tempted to communicate with him!

Last edited by newmama; 08/18/10 06:26 PM.
me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004