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Originally Posted By: Steve McQueen
you should ask, did you want to fool around last night or were you yanking my chain.


BINGO. Love the simplicity and the directness, McQueen! Even better if he'd do it at the time:

"(Wife), are you wanting to fool around, or are you just yanking my chain? Cuz I hate game-playing -- very unattractive."

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Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Originally Posted By: Steve McQueen
you should ask, did you want to fool around last night or were you yanking my chain.


BINGO. Love the simplicity and the directness, McQueen! Even better if he'd do it at the time:

"(Wife), are you wanting to fool around, or are you just yanking my chain? Cuz I hate game-playing -- very unattractive."


Haha, I can't wait to use this one next time! I'm putting it in my back pocket for later use.


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i have a much better one for you!

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Originally Posted By: Steve McQueen
i have a much better one for you!


Does it involve ripping my clothes off and saying, "RAAAAAAWWWR" ?


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Originally Posted By: john28
Originally Posted By: Steve McQueen
i have a much better one for you!


Does it involve ripping my clothes off and saying, "RAAAAAAWWWR" ?


LOL

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Hey, sorry to be a buzz-killer and bust up the yuks, but John, have you ever discussed with your attorney what the legal ramifications are -- if any -- if you have sex with your wife at this point?

In some jurisdictions, it's tantamount to your permanent approval/forgiveness/for any prior adultery, negating any recourse. She seems to be trying AWFULLY hard.

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Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Hey, sorry to be a buzz-killer and bust up the yuks, but John, have you ever discussed with your attorney what the legal ramifications are -- if any -- if you have sex with your wife at this point?

In some jurisdictions, it's tantamount to your permanent approval/forgiveness/for any prior adultery, negating any recourse. She seems to be trying AWFULLY hard.

Puppy


I was advised not to admit to forgiveness in any MC session or under recorder. That's it.

And as much as I may say here, she really isn't trying that awfully hard to have sex with me. If she was, I would have by now. She's either just playing games or becoming more comfortable with me sexually again. But not the actual act of sex.


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Originally Posted By: john28
Originally Posted By: Steve McQueen
i have a much better one for you!


Does it involve ripping my clothes off and saying, "RAAAAAAWWWR" ?


WOW. NO. TRY.

I must have transparency in this R if it is to go anywhere anytime soon.

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Maybe.

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Wish me strength everyone - leaving work to pickup S4, drop him at daycare and then head to MC. I've printed out that list i made earlier to make sure I can try and hit all the points I want to in my limited time with the MC.


----"Et tu, Brute?"----
me:28 W:24 S4
T:6
M:4
EA Exposed: 5/21/10
Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day)
NC w/ OM: 7/10/10
W moved out 8/21/10
http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
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