I guess I'm not clear of your sitch. Your not living together? What is his perception of your R, Or does he know? I see what you mean that it's hard to know what to do if he is not commited to you. Is there another woman involved? My H had a long term A-over 2 yrs. I think this was because they had been friends so long. He did say he never wanted to marry her or anything like that. He just said he could talk to her easy. Needless to say I'm working on listening skills and tlaking to him more. ALso I know she made him feel special(don't they always?)so I try to compliment him and make it very genuine. He really wants our M, but is afraid things will go back to how they used to be so I have to change and make those changes for life. I think as soon as he trusts them, he will move back home. It may be awhile, but I can wait. Tell me more about your sitch. Rachael
