And when there's conflict, and you don't tow the family line and give in to his mommy crying then he gets stressed out and shuts down...
That's how i understnad his brain to work at the moment
and then it's all my fault? and they tell him that i have to be removed from the family? i'm sitting here wondering what on earth i did that was so unforgiveable. i didn't cheat, steal, or physically hurt anybody. even cheaters can be forgiven but what did i do?
and here i am .. being called every nasty name in the book. for what? all i've tried to do was be a good wife. i supported my h, i even supported my ILs. i looked out for their best interest. and often times, i made my h look really good in front of his friends, family, and co-workers.
i can only tow the family line for so long. you're an adult for heaven's sake! crying to get your way?! oh for f*k sake. grow up.
christmas will be hard this year. i've spent many christmases with him and his friends. i feel like he's going to drag my name through the mud. i feel so wronged.
