Out of frustration I didn't send my H a goodnight email last night. This morning I woke up to 3 emails from him, one asking about the missing email and two regarding paperwork that needs to be sorted out for me to move there. All 3 pleasantly surprised me.
I replied to the paperwork email but didn't bring it up aside from that. Out talk today wasn't the happiest, it was mostly about his frustration with his work and life. I validated, validated and validated but the mood wasn't getting any better - I wonder if that's what should be happening. Before I used to be really upbeat and optimistic and just tried to cheer him up which rather made him feel invalidated, but now that I concentrate on validation I wonder if I'm not leaning too far the other way, not being cheery at all.
Anyone?
Accept that there is only one thing you can change in life and that is you
