i called in to speak to one of the counsellors and i mentioned this person's name. and the counsellor said .. um .. she's not dr. ann smith. she only has a master's degree. and she can only advise based on what the client tells her. and i said don't you think you need to hear both sides before you give advice like packing an overnight bag and telling him to not tell his wife? what kind of message are you sending? how do i know he's not having an affair and you are helping him hide the affair?!