By the way, be careful with the outbursts. Some spouses bait the other into situations where they lose their cool just to record it or have someone witness it for leverage in court. Not saying that you're W will do that. You just need to be aware. Also, be keep a record of what you're paying and to whom as well as when you do anything with the kids. It will come in handy later when you're going for 50/50.