FMV, I'm happy to read about your insight. What are you going to do with this new perspective, such as behavioral and lifestyle changes?
Hi CL, thanks, yes! That's really where the rubber hits the road isn't it. I think Time's post was nudging me in the same direction: it's one thing to understand what negative patterns are happening in my life. But that's only half of it - to create new positive direction I have to take action too!
Two things come to mind - first, I love Time's suggestion about venturing out on my own...making my own plans and then just letting H know he can join me if he'd like. Second, I'm also going to work on my social circle. I have a number of girlfriends already that I see really infrequently. I think I'll start there - re-establishing my connections with them and getting together more frequently. Those are the only things that come to mind right now. Let me know if you have any suggestions! Thanks and hugs guys, from PG.
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.
