i've done (a), (b), and (d). no children. people have been pretty supportive. i've said that he wanted out. i still want to save my m. and i have received support from friends and family.
i didn't do it vindictively. i didn't exaggerate. now it's whether my h will ever speak to me or respect me for wanting to save my m. but then .. he's 7 yrs old ... who am i kidding? respect?
