i wanted to call up the service and request to speak to her directly myself.
i did not know counsellors were anti-marriage. i know they advise the caller to take care of themselves but taking care of themselves by running away from their marriage problems?
that's it's okay to use the excuse that "in order to save myself i have to hurt the one that i love"?
pack an overnight bag so you can leave her? she's an abuser, so pack your bags for a quick escape?
take her house key so she can't get in the house?
btw, we were separated in-house for 4 months and not once did he not come home. he always came home and did not need that overnight bag.