Dan, give yourself a break! You have some tough days ahead. You will be emotional but it's ok. Just try to keep the emotions away from W. Believe me, you're handling this about as well as anyone could.
As far as the money, talk to your L about what your support should cover. I never got anything above what was ordered. Once you move out, I don't see how they can get support and make you pay her bills too.
Same thing with the bonus. Talk to your L about what you need to do before you do it. Otherwise it you could get into trouble and you don't want that since you need the court on your side.
She's probably peeing her pants over how she's going to cover things now, but here's the good part....It's not YOUR problem anymore. So, don't let it be.
