Another long term relationship bombed

[gr8 day 2B alive]

What I am extremely curious about is to see her state of mind after being alone for 4 days in a isolated lake house. I need to prepare myself for the possibility that she wants to talk about our R.

you are getting way , way too ahead of yourself with this thinking.

I know her enough to expect that. Even with the drunk outbursts which I obviously dislike, I can read between the lines when she talks.

Did you ever think of W would leave you or want a D?

I say this b/c my W and I even talked about how important it was to stay together and to raise our kids together years ago.
People change, dont be naive.

I have to make decision soon and I have to set boundaries for possible outcome. Her vacation alone may provide me with the opportunity to finalize my response which is due shortly after

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This here shows you are still reacting to her actions.
Decide what you want and what's best for you.



Posted on 8/9

Gucci,

I hear you. My self confidence is definately lacking right now. And you're right - she sees that. My self confidence was #1 quality that she fell in love with when we first met.

I never thought that I could change so fundamentally.

I think I will be the one who needs to leave.