Interested in the MLC perspective

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I am assuming you have read this thread on reconnection.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=190969&page=1

Normally reconnection would be animals and things, children and lastly you. This may start with the animals during the end of replay and progress from there.

I would say that it is a gradual thing as nothing in MLC is fast. If you are waiting for an aha moment maybe when they break withdrawal, but nothing is set in stone and they will still be processing.