FMV, I'm shortening the duration of feeling bad, and am trying to look at the bigger picture, rather than just her opinions when she's being emotional. I'm getting better at it.
She is quite a worrier, though I think she's working on it. She and I exercise together on a more frequent basis at our health club. Since I've taken up swimming, we can now swim together a few times per week. Her and my particiaption in the health club has helped lower the stress in the M a great deal.
In addition to boundary-setting I'm also working on being more expressive, being more willing to try new things, being more willing to take risks, and thinking in terms of the partnership instead of mainly me.
My body is getting stronger, my mind is getting sharper, and my light is shining brighter.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
