Hmmm... that might be a good plan, Allen. The other suggestions you've had have been right on target: Putting things in writing, letting him read the expert's opinio (vs mine) and the worksheets. He can't argue with a piece of paper like he can argue with me.
The only thing - big picture wise - is when it comes to relationships (and especially the M) he is not the analytical, engineer guy at all: it's all based on what he's feeling at the moment. Even when we first got married that was so, it's not just recently. I should've known it when he wanted to run off and get married after only knowing each other a few months! When it comes to most things, he's Mr. Logic. When it comes to feelings, he has NO logic. I've tried and tried to get through to him that at times you need to act your way into being in a mature relationship. The workshop drilled that point home too but he just doesn't seem to get it (because he doesn't FEEL it.)
SO: I'm not sure if he will totally appreciate the repair plan but it still shows iniative on my part if I do it!
He doesn't manage a team at work right now since he is doing independent contracting but has in the past.
