From what you guys are saying it reminded me of a friend of mine who's H cheated on her in some capacity. I never found out how, but he went kinda nutbar on her. He started freakin', being all jeolous of her thinking seh was doing something or that she had already. Now, nothing could be further fom the truth, but in his mind it was a very real fear. My firend explained it to me and then it made no sense. Now it does-kinda. I guess they feel that if they-who they are suppose to have control over-messed up so bad, then it could happen to us too. I guess it's not an uncommon thing. Just seems real weird to us cause we just spent all this time trying to get them back and they think we're gonna take off on em?? Yup, it's what they think. Rachael
