That's awesome about your vacations. You have to tell me what flying is like with bub. That reminds me to get Thanksgiving tickets...
Anyway.
Originally Posted By: Piano
Another tactical question: I don't want to pretend I am all happy-go-lucky when I am actually trying to recover from a personal set-back (to use an understatement) with common friends. What "image" do I project, if I know it's going to get back to WH?
Do I just say "I am doing my best to move forward ..getting a lot of joy out of bub..", stuff like that? and not mention WH and my pain?
Well. I guess I would say to talk to close, true friends about your pain. But people who are common friends, yes. Doing your best to move forward, had a setback but doing quite well, etc etc.
You can even make a policy that you guys won't talk about him. It helps a LOT later for yourself. Because if you want to know what they know about WH, you've already set up that you won't talk about him. And it's good to just not know!!
