Thanks Puppy, will read and learn about affair approaches.

Question to all those out there:

I have decided that I will stay in the South until Christmas break and at that time will re-evaluate if I will move back to the Northeast where I have a job or stay here. Do I tell H that timeframe tonight or do I just simply state that I am staying here.

Second Question: Do I tell him one of the reasons I'm staying here is to be able to fully give our M a chance or do I simply state that I'm staying here as it is best for the kids?

Thanks for opinions!

Dagny


Me 48, H49, M24, S14, S11
DB #1 4/2002-8/2003
Bomb #2 August 2010 & he moved out
Living with OW