So I am in need of advice.

I don't know how to deal with the H. Now he keeps saying that i went to his work and that people have told him that i have been seen there. He has gone on to say that i have been seen with the district manager!

It is crazy. I have not been anywhere near his work or with his district manager. I did not get him fired and yet he is adimate that I did all of this and says that people are telling him as such.

I know I just need to ignore what he is saying but I just can't help myself and it ends in arguing.

I just spoke to him on the phone. It didn't go over well. I am trying not to argue but it is so difficult with him.

I am on a conference at the end of september and I have asked him to take care of our D. I asked him to not have the OW over at our house and that i do not want our D around her at all. He got angry and hung the phone up on me. Called him back. I am so tired of the games. I don't think what i am asking is in anyway unreasonable. I am so tired of it.

He agreed that he would not have our D around her but had to put in the dig that our D is safe with her and she is not a bad person.

Disgusting. It is one thing to have an affair it is completely something else when you start to involve your children. I don't understand where his head is at.


M=42
H=51
Common-law 6yr
Children: 11yr old daughter (previous marrIage) 6yr old son
Bomb dropped January 2013