Need some more advice. My wife text me this AM about another # she found looking at my cell bill online. I made sure I had all her PW's after the affair and have checked them up until about 3 weeks ago. I know that the affair has been over. I dont care to look anymore.
Now my quesion is do I need to keep answering her questions? The only time she shows intrest she when she is curious. Its funny the # is one of her friends and she doesnt realize it. The same friend 9 weeks ago that told her that leaving me was a huge mistake.
When I didnt tell her who is was, she said I will just call it. I said why? She said she wanted to know. Then after I refuse to tell her, it went to I really dont care, I just wanted to see if you would tell me. So I texted back that I was no longer interested in playing games or pissing contest and that I was only concerned in saving the marriage and the kids family only if she was. I have not heard back.
Do I need to change my passwords? Or should that remain open? If I change mine she will change hers. She is now fully understanding that Im almost fed up. She still as of now doesnt want to let go and will not say why she doesnt. She doesnt think we can "get back close" again. This is what Ive been told before since my last post there has been no "R" talk.
Why were you so passive agressive? Why didn't you just tell her the number? If she is being transparent with you, why aren't you doing the same?
Why would you change your passwords knowing she would change hers? How would that improve the M?
Everything you do, you need to always ask yourself: Is what I'm about to say or do bring my S closer, or further away from me?
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
