My posts are really just thoughts and observations but think I need to do this to see if there are consistent changes;
H phoned to say he would be home earlier than expected and would therefore take D (usually texts)
H also collected D (I hadn't asked him to do that but he knew I could be late)
H asked how I got on at my medical appointment (2nd time he's asked now after 3 yrs of not asking and I have quite a lot of medical appointments)
H offered to bring something for last night's dinner. I suggested wine and salad. He bought both and also another wine for another time, and some of D's favourite apples.