Oh boy, I just looked up my old info to add to my signature when I first came to the boards and saw that jamesjohn had linkds all my threads in the successful women thread. Now I truly feel like a failure! How could I let myself be in the exact same position, again?

Though, I do know that isn't completely true, I know that I can survive this, I know that if I DB and I fail to save my M, I will save myself.

Tonight is the "talk". I'm actually writing myself notes so I remember to say everything I want to say. I must bring up the OW, not sure if he will deny or confirm. Doesn't matter, I just need to be honest and stop brushing things under the rug. As C said, if the M is going to end, have it end honestly. And if it will be saved again, everything will be out in the open this time.


Me 48, H49, M24, S14, S11
DB #1 4/2002-8/2003
Bomb #2 August 2010 & he moved out
Living with OW