Yow-that's unfortunate, but like someone said on here, they are like the weather. If you don't like the way it is wait a little bit and it will change (forgive me if I misquoted, but it's close!) I'm not going dark on him. I don't think it's good to drift too far apart. I will still ask him to do things OCCASIONALLY, and he almost always says yes.(Even if he really doesn't want to go) He will wonder why I've backed off. I have to quiet those tormenting thoughts that he'll turn to the OW!! Rachael
