You know how Bob Hawk's "wife"(OW turned W) had the book out and people are disgusted at how they profess their "greatest love ever" in public? It's a good example of how people see infidelity, their immediate circles might be polite and seem to 'accept' it but I really question whether they do. And OW being eaten by insecurity even if she doesn't admit it herself... to write such a book. Explains a lot about how WAH and OW's minds work, and it doesn't at all look like an eternal bliss.
