Quote: My h loved to give me the I'll think about it and at first I was like ok and would wait days and the event would come and go without him there. So the next time I asked and he said I'll think about it...I said I know that means no so I will not expect you. From that point on, he more readily gave a yes or a no in response to an invitation.
And since I got so tired of no's I eventually stopped asking him anywhere so now he invites me everywhere. Don't ask me I don't know how it all changed or even if I did the right thing but somehow it snapped into place. You'll have to just monitor the results and do what works. Every m is different. So try some of or all of what I've told you and see what happens.
So this doesn't work with my H. He'd never give me an answer or say no right away and then I'd make plans to go with somebody else and then he'd change his mind. Right now H doesn't want to do anything with me and hasn't asked me to do anything with him!
