The email I sent him was just one about the kids. One is sick at home today and I was informing him of that, and the other we need to send money to in order for him to come home Xmas. I did call him briefly and he was on a jobsite, but I'm sure he's back in the office and choosing NOT to answer me. I always ask him to call me after Poker even if it's late, but I'm not going to call him anymore today (oh boy, hard to do!) and I'm sure he'll not call me. Seems like so many times when we back off that's when they want us. Why is that?? Rachael