I hate when the h does that! I've had so many sleepless nights wondering why didn't he call me back, or answer my email. My mind would just race off on the assumptions. I finally ended up changing my email address thus blocking that avenue of approach to him. He eventually started using email to avoid calling me....like he could drop bombs and let me stew with no way to reach him. Hated it!
Once you ask h a question, do not continue to ask the same question over and over. Believe me, they are thinking about it. And usually no reply or I don't know or maybe answer indicates no is the answer...they are just too scared to tell you for fear of how you will react.
My h loved to give me the I'll think about it and at first I was like ok and would wait days and the event would come and go without him there. So the next time I asked and he said I'll think about it...I said I know that means no so I will not expect you. From that point on, he more readily gave a yes or a no in response to an invitation.
And since I got so tired of no's I eventually stopped asking him anywhere so now he invites me everywhere. Don't ask me I don't know how it all changed or even if I did the right thing but somehow it snapped into place. You'll have to just monitor the results and do what works. Every m is different. So try some of or all of what I've told you and see what happens.
