Originally Posted By: Bobby
My reply to her was that I no longer had an obligation to tell her my whereabouts.


This sounds a bit bitter...

And all I read up there ^^^^^ is how you sacrifice for your W.

While this seems altruistic and noble this is not healthy for YOU or your M.

Let this thought process continue and you are on the road to Bittertown population YOU.

What we are talking to you about is a process.

You have to pull yourself out of the sh!tstorm which is your W emotions/drama that you a have been a WILLING participant in.

There are no victims only volunteers in this MLC game.

Get me?

You cannot control her actions but you can control how you react.

Once you are out of the storm, you will begin to see things differently...

You can begin your journey.

You seem to be the fixer/enabler and believe me I know of what I speak.

You can't fix this my friend.

Stop fighting her.

You will see a change in you and her when you stop.

Detach.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am