When I read your post it literaly jumped out at me! Take all those things you said about your H and put my name in his place and wha-la! There I am! Excuse me...There I WAS! Clamors for reassurance (the old me) with numerous questions,(the old me) with you getting angry and more vague, (My H) which leads to greater mistrust. (the old me) The only problem is my doing those things did not result in my H knowing I feel lost, confused needing patience and a listening ear. You have realized that and can give that gift to your H. I have to do a 180 and not do any of those things in order to get my M back on track. Do you see the irony here? Rachael
