Lin has an amazing story and it is refreshing to see her posting again a bit. I have wondered what happened to her and her H.
The only warning I would give, is that as you look at the reuntied marriage stories, that you watch your definition of success. Those that have reunited and are truly happy, they have done the work, during the time of separation, to learn all of the things that we keep telling you about. The things that you are learning now.
It was because of that learning and growth, that Lin had the strength and ability to welcome her H home, to make the choice that she felt was best for her, and to continue on rebuilding their R.
Other's, like Brooklyn, have had similar growth and have had to make different choices for now. Maybe not forever, but for now. Brooklyn, her future is her's to write. Believe me, that woman, and many other's here, who aren't reunited, are definately success stories.
The common denominator... they looked within. Stared at the mirror until they wanted to smash it. And they took a step, every day...
Keep steppin...
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
