Sounds good to me, G. Thanks for outlining it.
And the good news is I have some surprising things coming up. Friends have invited me to join them up north at a beach resort in one week's time. This will be bub's first plane trip!
Then two weeks after that, I'm heading to another big city up north to spend a week with my SIL and niece.
So I am not going to sit around moping and journaling on here ALL the time, ha!

Another tactical question: I don't want to pretend I am all happy-go-lucky when I am actually trying to recover from a personal set-back (to use an understatement) with common friends. What "image" do I project, if I know it's going to get back to WH?

Do I just say "I am doing my best to move forward ..getting a lot of joy out of bub..", stuff like that? and not mention WH and my pain?