Thanks fullmoon. WH is going back to the city where we lived these past few years - his hometown. He has a lot of 'explaining' to do to our very best friends (they were his friends first, but after 15 years we are all close). He will find it hard to introdce OW to our circle. At least in the short term. BUt cos I am here, and they are there, eventually I am sure they will be accepted...that's if it lasts.
And as OW is part of WH's extended family friend circle, I am doubly concerned he is going to do his darndest to make that relationship work, or else he will have screwed two women's lives up, if you see what I mean?
I think WH will avoid the places we frequented and lived, and hang out more in OW's area and the area of his former work.