I am so sorry to hear how much your wife is putting your kids through all of this and how much they are aware of OM. Based on the timeframe it sounds like she initiated the D filing before or right around the time that the fight about parenting where she moved out happened. What that argument that big of a deal for her to leave with the kids? I am thinking she made a bigger deal out of nothing to have an excuse to leave. It also saddens me that she couldn't just go spend the night somewhere but took all 4 kids with her on her wild ride.
Me 32 H 32 Ds 3.5 and 1.5 M 5 years, T 14 years EA/Bomb: 7/1/10 PA revealed: 9/14/10 Legally separated: 10/01/10