I'm doing well AG. Did you ever figure out how to prepare those bluegills?
So W sends me an e-mail today to tell me about all of the expenses we have coming up regarding the kids, dog, cats, etc. I send her one back detailing out what I am willing to pay.
By the way, if I am paying massive amounts of support to her, should I be paying for stuff like school supplies and kids clothes? I thought that since I am paying her support based on her having the kids 65% of the time and me 35% of the time, maybe I should be paying 35% of their expenses? Or should their expenses all come out of the support and I pay her nothing?
Anyway, I bought the dog food today and offered to pay 35% of kids expenses. I have also paid the mortgage, utilities and cable. So when I get home, she starts telling me that we have to pay the babysitter ($80 per week) so I say, yeah? Well I have paid all the bills. So she says, well I guess I'll just keep on shelling it out then. And I say, Shelling it out? Yeah, I've paid the babysitter the last three weeks. This is unfocking believeable to me. Then she says she can't talk to me because it's ok as long as she agrees with me, but otherwise I am an a$$hole, as she is walking away. I said Fock You! She then left to go for a walk.
When she returned, I said, maybe if you weren't trying to keep my kids from me, getting me kicked out of the house and getting my bonus $ tied-up in a trust account I would be more willing to help you. Then she says, this isn't about helping me, this is about the dog and the kids. I said I told you what I would do in terms of supporting the kids. And I bought the dog food ($42). What do you want? You didn't propose anything. All you did was talk about all the expenses we have. Then D came in the house and the conversation was dropped.
God, what the F does she expect from me. My neighbors told me to pay only what the court has ordered and let her worry about the rest. I don't know what else to do right now. This seems ridiculous to me. She probably is broke, but so am I. Plus, I will have to buy furniture for the kids at my new home.
By the way, I still haven't given the $ to her attorney for the trust account. I paid off all the credit cards and plan to pay for my car repairs and pay off W's car repairs and give the atty what is left. Let them put me in jail. Then who will pay the f-ing mortgage?
Gotta get some sleep tonight. Still dragging from last night's concert.
Oh, I almost forgot. I think I am going to have my first and last party here while W is gone this weekend. We finished the basement, but never had a party, so I am going to this weekend. If any of you will be in the kenosha area, let me know. You are definitely invited! then next weekend, when I move, I think I am going to have a party at the new house and invite everyone except W!! Maybe my little blondie will show up and we can do some naked slides into the new pool!!!!!!
Have a great night everyone. I don't care anymore. Time to move on...........This is who I was when she fell in love with me. We'll see what happens.
I know. I did everything wrong and I'm an a$$hole, but I can't take it anymore!!!
