Beleive me, I know how you feel, the insecurity, fears, the not knowing what is going on. But all this, I think, has to do with building trust. We look at things from only our point of view way to often, and then read things into their actions, or lack of actions. Remember the alien theory. He was abducted and is now struggling to return to earth. When we push for answers, and they are not ready to give them, then we give them reasons to not be around us. Be patient, treat him like a freind, don't expect things from him. If you get mad and pressure, then that reassures his descion to be apart. But when you are calm, cool and secure with yourself (the act as if method)this confuses the alien abducter and brings them closer to us. I hope this makes some sense.
