dsh, you will feel better in your own place, you'll be busy doing things the way YOU want to do them, putting things where you like, and though you'll feel a heck of a lot of twinges, the pain will go away.
Keep focusing on your son and daughter. They need you to be a rock; strong, not melty man.
Don't focus on your wife falling on her @ss. It's not what you really want, and it's negative energy. Push negative thoughts/energy as far away as you can.
