this nmmng book has some good points, but there are points that i do not agree with at all.
i will look that part over again.
we all know when people are taking advantage of us, but it's enraging knowing that our spouses are really the ones taking advantage of our nice guy persona which makes it clear to understand why i can't be a "nice guy" at least to her; others appreciate and respect and love me for being someone who does as much as possible for others.
